Getting engaged is not a casual event. It marks a new phase in one’s life, borne of a readiness to forgo life’s easy pleasures for the sake of the more subtle rewards one can only get in extremely long-term relationships. It is an occasion laden with symbolism, when promises are made that have implications for the rest of one’s life–such as never having sex with anyone else ever again. Belmeloro salutes engaged people everywhere, be they pastry chefs in Lima or telecoms analysts in Frankfurt, because being engaged truly is an engaging spectacle.
Swept away by emotion, Belmeloro feels compelled to quote from that wedding standard by Khalil Gibran: “The oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.” Think about it. One would have to bend the laws of physics for two trees to be in each other’s shadow. Let alone grow.